In a relationship.

Sometimes it scares me when I think further about relationships. Over thinking causes stress, but at times it can be of a great help as it prepares you for what might happen. I listed down a few things that might happen in the future, which threatens me, in my mind. I am honestly afraid of changes like spending little hours with my partner, busy with work, getting caught up with other activities that could jeopardize the relationship between us. Apart from that, my biggest fear is, a change of heart. We can never take control of our feelings. We can take actions on it, like pretending, but for how long can we lie to ourselves? One word for you in the future : REGRET. You will have the sense of regret when you realize that you are wasting your time by pretending all along and lying to yourself. So, the best way is to stay upfront and be true to yourself.